"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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So what's the verdict on the masturbation?

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Black Casanova

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Is it bad for the game, good, or indifferent?

i'm talking once a day, every other day

Right now I'm on Day 13 without it
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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NYC Dude

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Some people say it has biological effects, some say psychological, other say none at all. In my opinion everyone's reaction is different. Some people get a good vibe when they haven't masturbated for weeks and are succesful, and still others are successful even though they masturbate multiple times daily.
 

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psh i cant hold out on masturbation unless i absolutely have to, but when i do its great. like i'm a songwriter and i came out with a beatles-esque great number when i went on vacation with my family and didnt masturbate for a week. i always am like i should quit for a week and let things flow but it never happens lol.

i'm so horny...
 

08aisaac

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Well If I am really horny I will just cyber. Might as well please two people at once.
 

TheNewGuy

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Originally posted by 08aisaac
Well If I am really horny I will just cyber. Might as well please two people at once.
If you like pleasing 50 year old fat hair guys posing as teenage girls... sure.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Jerky Boi

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Haha, wow what have these forums come to? Sometimes it's good to hold out for a while. Kinda builds a little self- control over time.
 

08aisaac

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oh I make sure. lol. No 50 year old man would go through al of that crap for a little cyber.lol
 

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Lately I have taken a new light on masterbation in general: I set aside 15-20 minutes a few times a week and go through a routine...

Firm grip around head, pull straight out 25 sec
Pull up 25 sec
pull left 25sec
Pull right 25 sec
Pull down 25 sec
Pull straight again for 4 sets of 25 sec (right after another)

Inbetween the stretching sets I "shake" myself against my leg to help bloodflow

Next I do PC flexes
25 as fast as I can
25 2 second holds
25 where I tighten for 5 seconds, hold for 5 seconds, then release for 5 seconds

Then I jelk
1 minute straight
1 minute against the curve
5 minutes straight

I take a few min to get fully arroused, then I lube a ziplock bag and wedge it between my matress and box spring and thrust into it for a minute. Relax and go regular for afew minutes, then thrust for another 5 minutes hard... then I finish as normal.

Not only is the climax during masterbation more enjoyable... In one month I have had great improvement in my sexual performace (I held an erection for 5 min of oral sex and 50 minutes of vaginal a few days ago), my erection is harder, and I think it may even be slightly longer than it was just a few weeks ago.

Theres more info on the stretches and jelquing and pc flexes in the anything else forum I think.
 

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In some modern energetic practices (thing like yoga), It is said that frequent EJACULATION is bad for you in many ways including physically and energetically. This is because it is beleived (and proven, actually) ejaculation is a release of huge amounts of your most densest energy. You lose vital sexual energy which not noly affects your sex drive, but also greatly affects your physical body. Therefore it is much better to learn to orgasm without ejaculating. However, this is not to say that ejaculation should be completely avoided, it is possible to do so but one must be fairly knowledgeable of the energy body to accomodate the change. I have read that it is recommended to ejaculate every 1-2 weeks.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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