"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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So what's the verdict on the masturbation?

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Is it bad for the game, good, or indifferent?

i'm talking once a day, every other day

Right now I'm on Day 13 without it
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Some people say it has biological effects, some say psychological, other say none at all. In my opinion everyone's reaction is different. Some people get a good vibe when they haven't masturbated for weeks and are succesful, and still others are successful even though they masturbate multiple times daily.
 

dannowillbookem

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psh i cant hold out on masturbation unless i absolutely have to, but when i do its great. like i'm a songwriter and i came out with a beatles-esque great number when i went on vacation with my family and didnt masturbate for a week. i always am like i should quit for a week and let things flow but it never happens lol.

i'm so horny...
 

08aisaac

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Well If I am really horny I will just cyber. Might as well please two people at once.
 

TheNewGuy

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Originally posted by 08aisaac
Well If I am really horny I will just cyber. Might as well please two people at once.
If you like pleasing 50 year old fat hair guys posing as teenage girls... sure.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Jerky Boi

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Haha, wow what have these forums come to? Sometimes it's good to hold out for a while. Kinda builds a little self- control over time.
 

08aisaac

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oh I make sure. lol. No 50 year old man would go through al of that crap for a little cyber.lol
 

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Lately I have taken a new light on masterbation in general: I set aside 15-20 minutes a few times a week and go through a routine...

Firm grip around head, pull straight out 25 sec
Pull up 25 sec
pull left 25sec
Pull right 25 sec
Pull down 25 sec
Pull straight again for 4 sets of 25 sec (right after another)

Inbetween the stretching sets I "shake" myself against my leg to help bloodflow

Next I do PC flexes
25 as fast as I can
25 2 second holds
25 where I tighten for 5 seconds, hold for 5 seconds, then release for 5 seconds

Then I jelk
1 minute straight
1 minute against the curve
5 minutes straight

I take a few min to get fully arroused, then I lube a ziplock bag and wedge it between my matress and box spring and thrust into it for a minute. Relax and go regular for afew minutes, then thrust for another 5 minutes hard... then I finish as normal.

Not only is the climax during masterbation more enjoyable... In one month I have had great improvement in my sexual performace (I held an erection for 5 min of oral sex and 50 minutes of vaginal a few days ago), my erection is harder, and I think it may even be slightly longer than it was just a few weeks ago.

Theres more info on the stretches and jelquing and pc flexes in the anything else forum I think.
 

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In some modern energetic practices (thing like yoga), It is said that frequent EJACULATION is bad for you in many ways including physically and energetically. This is because it is beleived (and proven, actually) ejaculation is a release of huge amounts of your most densest energy. You lose vital sexual energy which not noly affects your sex drive, but also greatly affects your physical body. Therefore it is much better to learn to orgasm without ejaculating. However, this is not to say that ejaculation should be completely avoided, it is possible to do so but one must be fairly knowledgeable of the energy body to accomodate the change. I have read that it is recommended to ejaculate every 1-2 weeks.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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