"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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BlueSteel

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Girl's with boyfriends in high school?

Worth chasing? Last Priority? Run?

I have been lurking this site for week finally posted and this is something I haven't found to much on and I seem to be in this situation from time to time.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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It's not the best idea to go after those girls. It's a lot more hassle because you have to be better than her boyfriend for her to leave him. It also creates drama if the guy finds out and you can easily get into the situation where you think you have her but she decides to stay with the boyfriend instead. Even if you do get her, you have to think about if she left him for you, she could do the same thing for the next guy who comes along. You're much better off going for a girl who's single.

That being said, I've done it more than once and made it work.

Are you trying to date these girls or just hook up with her?
 

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I was a huge AFC before I found this site awhile ago so I never capitalized on a lot of things but the one I'm talking about specifically would be date. Her BF is bigger then me but I could take him if he tried anything.
 

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I would say, dont run, just be ok with it, game her but have no intentions, if she comes to you great... then she was the agressor... I wouldnt mind as long as I dont know the guy and he is not a friend.

as she gets attracted to you, then you can pull her in, and if you really like her and she likes you, she will end up leaving her BF for you.
 
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