Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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BlueSteel

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Girl's with boyfriends in high school?

Worth chasing? Last Priority? Run?

I have been lurking this site for week finally posted and this is something I haven't found to much on and I seem to be in this situation from time to time.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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It's not the best idea to go after those girls. It's a lot more hassle because you have to be better than her boyfriend for her to leave him. It also creates drama if the guy finds out and you can easily get into the situation where you think you have her but she decides to stay with the boyfriend instead. Even if you do get her, you have to think about if she left him for you, she could do the same thing for the next guy who comes along. You're much better off going for a girl who's single.

That being said, I've done it more than once and made it work.

Are you trying to date these girls or just hook up with her?
 

BlueSteel

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I was a huge AFC before I found this site awhile ago so I never capitalized on a lot of things but the one I'm talking about specifically would be date. Her BF is bigger then me but I could take him if he tried anything.
 

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I would say, dont run, just be ok with it, game her but have no intentions, if she comes to you great... then she was the agressor... I wouldnt mind as long as I dont know the guy and he is not a friend.

as she gets attracted to you, then you can pull her in, and if you really like her and she likes you, she will end up leaving her BF for you.
 
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