"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Girl's with boyfriends in high school?

Worth chasing? Last Priority? Run?

I have been lurking this site for week finally posted and this is something I haven't found to much on and I seem to be in this situation from time to time.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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It's not the best idea to go after those girls. It's a lot more hassle because you have to be better than her boyfriend for her to leave him. It also creates drama if the guy finds out and you can easily get into the situation where you think you have her but she decides to stay with the boyfriend instead. Even if you do get her, you have to think about if she left him for you, she could do the same thing for the next guy who comes along. You're much better off going for a girl who's single.

That being said, I've done it more than once and made it work.

Are you trying to date these girls or just hook up with her?
 
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I was a huge AFC before I found this site awhile ago so I never capitalized on a lot of things but the one I'm talking about specifically would be date. Her BF is bigger then me but I could take him if he tried anything.
 
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I would say, dont run, just be ok with it, game her but have no intentions, if she comes to you great... then she was the agressor... I wouldnt mind as long as I dont know the guy and he is not a friend.

as she gets attracted to you, then you can pull her in, and if you really like her and she likes you, she will end up leaving her BF for you.
 
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