"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So What is the dream?

Aspire

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So I red Pook's chapter on Dreams first, chicks second. So what is my dream. Here is my reflection.

As naïve 18 year old, my "vison" was I will get an education have a successful career and then get a mater to have sex with. To me, the girl was the dream and the career and everthing was just to facilitate the dream.

Then reality kicked in. Reality lead to depression, which lead to bad decisions, which lead to financial hardships and I turned to desperate measures. Now I have things back on track. I have a steady job, not yet where I need to be but I am more narrowly focused. The financial hardships have made me sensitive to people in poverty, especially the homeless. I am active in homeless charities and I have decided that I am going to fight poverty through the channel of politics. I am presently helping on campaigns and hope to run for office myself in a few years.

In light of Pook, I believe "The Girl in My dream" will be the one who appreciates and supports these ventures of mine.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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skinnyguy

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The girl of your dreams will accept you despite all of your faults

It’s good that you’re striving to become a better person and have empathy for the homeless. I’ve been broke and on the street and depressed. I’m glad it happened because it makes me appreciate everything I have now.

Women will always be there when you want them. Focus on building up a life of happiness and screen hard for chicks who have the same attitude as you.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

wifehunter

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What about the woman of my nightmares?:p
 
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