"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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So What is the dream?

Aspire

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So I red Pook's chapter on Dreams first, chicks second. So what is my dream. Here is my reflection.

As naïve 18 year old, my "vison" was I will get an education have a successful career and then get a mater to have sex with. To me, the girl was the dream and the career and everthing was just to facilitate the dream.

Then reality kicked in. Reality lead to depression, which lead to bad decisions, which lead to financial hardships and I turned to desperate measures. Now I have things back on track. I have a steady job, not yet where I need to be but I am more narrowly focused. The financial hardships have made me sensitive to people in poverty, especially the homeless. I am active in homeless charities and I have decided that I am going to fight poverty through the channel of politics. I am presently helping on campaigns and hope to run for office myself in a few years.

In light of Pook, I believe "The Girl in My dream" will be the one who appreciates and supports these ventures of mine.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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skinnyguy

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The girl of your dreams will accept you despite all of your faults

It’s good that you’re striving to become a better person and have empathy for the homeless. I’ve been broke and on the street and depressed. I’m glad it happened because it makes me appreciate everything I have now.

Women will always be there when you want them. Focus on building up a life of happiness and screen hard for chicks who have the same attitude as you.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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wifehunter

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What about the woman of my nightmares?:p
 
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