"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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So what do I do with these two

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Hey DJs, good to be back. I have two quick questions for you

GIRL 1 - Met in Vegas 3 months ago. We made out. She lives in a city I used to visit a lot. On one visit I had to change plans - we were going todo dinner. Now that I live here she asked to meet for lunch instead. She was hungover and still showed up. 3 beers and 3 hours later it ended. Fun time. Some back and forth touching, etc. She offered to drive me to my apt from the bar , but my car was nearby so she drove me there. I hugged her goodbye from the passenger seat. She hugged me hard and said "Let's do lunch again". I got up and she added "I had a good time." What's my next move?

GIRL 2 - Met her from an online site. Hung for a couple drinks. Good banter. Only Interesting Indicator was flicking hair back. At end of night I asked if she was cold (she was crossing arms, it was windy), she said no. Then I hugged her and she joked she was walking this way because she knew I was parked the other way. She texted me 'Goodnight, thank you for the drink: 30 mins later.
Today I texted for Saturday night. She said "Awwww I already have plans with friends." Me Back: That's cool. Another time. She back "For sure!'
What's my next move?

Thanks guys!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The first one was too long ago and the second one didn't counter offer for date....my gut says both will lead to nothing.....i would be out there meeting new ones if I were you...
 
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zinc4 said:
The first one was too long ago and the second one didn't counter offer for date....my gut says both will lead to nothing.....i would be out there meeting new ones if I were you...
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Hey Zinc,

I think was unclear on the first one. I saw her for the second time two days ago for lunch. This was after I bailed on a dinner date a couple months ago. so timetline:

3 Months ago - in Vegas, we met, made out
2 Months ago - was supposed to do dinner at her city, I had to bail.
2 days ago - met for lunch.

And you read the rest.

Agree on girl 2.

Thanks!
 
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CaConfused said:
Hey Zinc,

I think was unclear on the first one. I saw her for the second time two days ago for lunch. This was after I bailed on a dinner date a couple months ago. so timetline:

3 Months ago - in Vegas, we met, made out
2 Months ago - was supposed to do dinner at her city, I had to bail.
2 days ago - met for lunch.

And you read the rest.

Agree on girl 2.

Thanks!
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Could someone do me a favor and hit me with some advice on girl 2 specifically?
 
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