"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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So what do I do with these two

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Hey DJs, good to be back. I have two quick questions for you

GIRL 1 - Met in Vegas 3 months ago. We made out. She lives in a city I used to visit a lot. On one visit I had to change plans - we were going todo dinner. Now that I live here she asked to meet for lunch instead. She was hungover and still showed up. 3 beers and 3 hours later it ended. Fun time. Some back and forth touching, etc. She offered to drive me to my apt from the bar , but my car was nearby so she drove me there. I hugged her goodbye from the passenger seat. She hugged me hard and said "Let's do lunch again". I got up and she added "I had a good time." What's my next move?

GIRL 2 - Met her from an online site. Hung for a couple drinks. Good banter. Only Interesting Indicator was flicking hair back. At end of night I asked if she was cold (she was crossing arms, it was windy), she said no. Then I hugged her and she joked she was walking this way because she knew I was parked the other way. She texted me 'Goodnight, thank you for the drink: 30 mins later.
Today I texted for Saturday night. She said "Awwww I already have plans with friends." Me Back: That's cool. Another time. She back "For sure!'
What's my next move?

Thanks guys!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The first one was too long ago and the second one didn't counter offer for date....my gut says both will lead to nothing.....i would be out there meeting new ones if I were you...
 
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zinc4 said:
The first one was too long ago and the second one didn't counter offer for date....my gut says both will lead to nothing.....i would be out there meeting new ones if I were you...
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Hey Zinc,

I think was unclear on the first one. I saw her for the second time two days ago for lunch. This was after I bailed on a dinner date a couple months ago. so timetline:

3 Months ago - in Vegas, we met, made out
2 Months ago - was supposed to do dinner at her city, I had to bail.
2 days ago - met for lunch.

And you read the rest.

Agree on girl 2.

Thanks!
 
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CaConfused said:
Hey Zinc,

I think was unclear on the first one. I saw her for the second time two days ago for lunch. This was after I bailed on a dinner date a couple months ago. so timetline:

3 Months ago - in Vegas, we met, made out
2 Months ago - was supposed to do dinner at her city, I had to bail.
2 days ago - met for lunch.

And you read the rest.

Agree on girl 2.

Thanks!
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Could someone do me a favor and hit me with some advice on girl 2 specifically?
 
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