"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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So This Girl Was Stairing at Me (High School)

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I was waiting in the hallway and this really good looking girl was walking by me and she was staring at me with direct eye contact and smiling. I was posted up against a wall so I know she wasn't staring at anyone behind me. I'm a Freshman but I'm rather tall. I'm 5 foot 10. Now I do have this huge insanely large hickey on my neck so maybe she was looking at that, but I kept eye contact with her. What do you think I should do if this happens again.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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sparky0000

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No girl in her right mind wants a Freshman boy in high school. Freshman girls want Johnny "Freakin'" Depp. He is like 40 something. If you don't believe me you should just go take a poll of Freshman girls. They definitely don't want one of their peers. Problem is that girls mature so much quicker than boys. Americans don't get this.

I was always paranoid. When a girl smiled at me I was sure that she was playing cruel games with me.
 
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snorida44x said:
Dude you don't have to be no Johnny Depp. As soon as you and her make that contact, you have to intiate the conversation immediately. Or else you might as well just throw away the opportunity. It's much better if you just sort of walk into the set, then wait around for something to happen. Remember your trying to display confidence, you want to make it seem like approaching women is no problem for you and you've "done this type of thing before" so she will feel comfortable around you. It's no big deal. Go up and tell her "You look like your up to no good." or somethin like that.
That would be so sketchy. We don't even know each others names. Never met her.
 

Plec07

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Gotta agree with snorida here. If that might be too bold for you then try something more like you. The important thing is that your talking to her.
 
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