"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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So This Girl Was Stairing at Me (High School)

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I was waiting in the hallway and this really good looking girl was walking by me and she was staring at me with direct eye contact and smiling. I was posted up against a wall so I know she wasn't staring at anyone behind me. I'm a Freshman but I'm rather tall. I'm 5 foot 10. Now I do have this huge insanely large hickey on my neck so maybe she was looking at that, but I kept eye contact with her. What do you think I should do if this happens again.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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sparky0000

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No girl in her right mind wants a Freshman boy in high school. Freshman girls want Johnny "Freakin'" Depp. He is like 40 something. If you don't believe me you should just go take a poll of Freshman girls. They definitely don't want one of their peers. Problem is that girls mature so much quicker than boys. Americans don't get this.

I was always paranoid. When a girl smiled at me I was sure that she was playing cruel games with me.
 
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snorida44x said:
Dude you don't have to be no Johnny Depp. As soon as you and her make that contact, you have to intiate the conversation immediately. Or else you might as well just throw away the opportunity. It's much better if you just sort of walk into the set, then wait around for something to happen. Remember your trying to display confidence, you want to make it seem like approaching women is no problem for you and you've "done this type of thing before" so she will feel comfortable around you. It's no big deal. Go up and tell her "You look like your up to no good." or somethin like that.
That would be so sketchy. We don't even know each others names. Never met her.
 

Plec07

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Gotta agree with snorida here. If that might be too bold for you then try something more like you. The important thing is that your talking to her.
 
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