"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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So This Girl Was Stairing at Me (High School)

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I was waiting in the hallway and this really good looking girl was walking by me and she was staring at me with direct eye contact and smiling. I was posted up against a wall so I know she wasn't staring at anyone behind me. I'm a Freshman but I'm rather tall. I'm 5 foot 10. Now I do have this huge insanely large hickey on my neck so maybe she was looking at that, but I kept eye contact with her. What do you think I should do if this happens again.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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sparky0000

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No girl in her right mind wants a Freshman boy in high school. Freshman girls want Johnny "Freakin'" Depp. He is like 40 something. If you don't believe me you should just go take a poll of Freshman girls. They definitely don't want one of their peers. Problem is that girls mature so much quicker than boys. Americans don't get this.

I was always paranoid. When a girl smiled at me I was sure that she was playing cruel games with me.
 
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snorida44x said:
Dude you don't have to be no Johnny Depp. As soon as you and her make that contact, you have to intiate the conversation immediately. Or else you might as well just throw away the opportunity. It's much better if you just sort of walk into the set, then wait around for something to happen. Remember your trying to display confidence, you want to make it seem like approaching women is no problem for you and you've "done this type of thing before" so she will feel comfortable around you. It's no big deal. Go up and tell her "You look like your up to no good." or somethin like that.
That would be so sketchy. We don't even know each others names. Never met her.
 

Plec07

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Gotta agree with snorida here. If that might be too bold for you then try something more like you. The important thing is that your talking to her.
 
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