"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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So the HOT teacher is hitting on you....Would you?

XMinister

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How do you guys personally feel about getting involved with teachers? I recently read this article about teachers sleeping with students and quoted it in my own blog. I've been a member of the sosuave community since high school, but I've never given this any thought until how.

I'm interested in seeing how you guys feel about banging the hottest teacher in school. I feel like it was every guy's fantasy, but would ya'll really go through with it?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I banged one of my professor's assistants in college a purtera rican chick very hot....she was a regular at our frat house and we were semi dating for a while before we both broke it off

and to my surprise, she was my teacher next semester for one of my classes....i was shocked....classmates were congratulating me when i told them...her being my professor, i wanted to bang her some more but she was already involved in a serious relationship at that point...so i would sit there in class remembering the blow jobs she gave me and pounding her ass...while she was talking...and actually i wasn't an awkward situation, she was still very nice and even flirtatious at times....probably could have gotten her back but i was involved with other chicks as well at the time..
 

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Yeah, it seems like these teachers get exposed pretty easily. I guess it's that hard for students to keep their mouth shut about such an achievement. Yeah, it seems like a win win for the student.

Mauser 96 bought up an interesting point though. I wouldn't imagine such negatives on his part. Interesting.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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how can people mock you from ****ing an hot teacher ? If shes hot and really hitting on you then by no means do it!
 

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As surprising as it may be, it actually happened to me before. One of my teachers saw me at my locker and started giving me a shoulder massage from behind while asking me how it was going. She switched to a back rub quickly after. I Was too young to truly understand what was going on, so nothing ever happened. And I think she was pregnant at the time so one way or the other it was a no go. She wasn't hot either, looking back she was slightly above doable.
 

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Mauser96 said:
Odd you mention that. The teacher I referrred to was in the last trimester of pregnancy as well. And she WAS hot.

What I don't get....is if she wanted sex, she could have gotten it from someone her OWN age and at worst, lost her marriage. Now, she will never work again as a teacher, lost her kids and husband, and will perpetually be looked upon as a pedophile. Wherever she goes, once recognized, it will be murmured....all for a fling with someone who didn't know what he was doing.
Interesting, though I doubt anyone excluding the legal system, the mindless parrots, and other women would truly view an attractive woman as a pedofile. Just another one of the double standards of life. And I believe my teacher was a month or two beyond the "not bending over to pick things up" stage. Guessing that would be the second trimester.

And its also interesting about your son's friend. I've always thought about how others would have viewed me if I had done something with my teacher (and we got caught), and the thought has never been positive.
 

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Mauser96 said:
Well, probably as he gets older, he will not mind. Now? He is referred to as teacher ****er, and everytime he meets someone new, it comes up.

All I can tell you, is I know his family fairly well and it has been quite hard on his Mom. They live in a Town of 2000, so everyone knows.
If your family is a bunch of church frreaks who condeem sex then maybe, but my family is not like that.

That would actually be considered as high value in my social circle, as long as shes hot, of course. And even if it wasnt, yould just need to keep your mouth shut. would it be that hard?

Edit: if he lives in a town of 2000 maybe is biggest concern should be getting the hell out of there?

2Edit: just want to enphasize the fact that on your story its all their fault. One of them, maybe the teacher or maybe your frieand - or both - are extremely dumb for not being able to shut up.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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definitely without a doubt

and I'd brag to all my friends, but only in person and when I'm sure no untrustworthy/unwanted people can hear

I'd of course take pics or something for proof.

if we get caught, I'd probably be the school badass among the men

and I'd just vehemently refuse to help with the trial against her in any way shape or form and then it'd be pretty much impossible to prosecute her.
 

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Mauser96 said:
No you wouldn't. I am going to go check you r posts now for age, what are you 13? His own family (and yours I hope too) was aghast at this and turned over his phone, etc to police. he had no say in it. NONE. Nor would you. If you don't testify, you get contempt of court. Please think before you type.
first off, you're taking a theoretical scenario a little seriously,

second off, how could he have been sure no one would hear him if his boss was nearby? might as well have talked about it in the school office while he was at it.

I am almost 100% that you can't ever be forced to testify.

your family being against you does seem like a problem, ideally you'd be able to talk them into calming down

realistically, hide your phone and/or delete the incriminating stuff.
 

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Thank you for your words of wisdom:)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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