"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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So Suave for men and women

XThrax

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So I have spent the last week or two en Europe and its been great. Almost every night there is an international meetup for locals and expats and the like to mingle and socialize. It never fails that we get on the topic of the dating scene and both men and women talk about what its like here compared to there; fresh perspectives and philosophizes.I love it.
Then I could not think of anything in the US or at least in FL where I live. I know so suave is mostly for the betterment of men but no face to face interaction.

So I am going to start my own meet up at venue suited for socializing and networking.
I want to get a so suave perspective on the details of the meet up before I create it and any feedback.


Titles:
How to be social with men and women<<<[Which title should I choose?]
How to live with men and women<<<<<<<[Which title should I choose?]

Description:
We like to talk about the Intergender social dynamics that happen between men and women and generally any and all topics that come about. This meet up is designed for the mutual improvement in matters of dating, single life, and long-term relationships. We talk about those awful blind dates your friends set you up with, the spouse you found out was cheating on you, or that one person giving you mixed signals. Practical tips, tricks and philosophies as if we are your hi-di-ho neighbor.
All are welcome.
This meet up takes inspiration from the Junto establish by Benjamin franklin in 1727.

Here is what we are not:
We are not a dating service or agency of any kind.
We are not trying to sell you a product or service.
We are not a life Coaching or PUA group.
We are not disrespectful to anyone who shows up regardless of gender, sex, or orientation.

Here is what we are:
A fresh perspective on the single, dating, and marriage scene as of today.
A place to socialize and share social battle scars, recent accomplishments, or just talk out your problems to sympathetic ears.
A welcoming environment to pull up a chair and drink for locals, internationals and expats while juxtaposing cultural differences in the meta.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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touma.akagi

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Should've posted this in the "Wingman Forum" category instead...
 

XThrax

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Drop the inter-gender dynamics stuff, drop the dating faux pas, and just make it an expats group imo.
Hmmm well Orlando is the number one vacation spot in the US but mostly for families. I think I will add something about vacationers, visitors to florida and student exchange. And a place to practice English which might sound strange if you live in the US but I've met many Spanish only speakers in FL.
Maybe I make a deal with the bar to give discounts if everyone who comes has to buy one drink like extended happy hour.
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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