"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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So, should a girl be nervous around you, or completely comfortable?

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The_Reaper

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Nervous because she's very attracted, of course.

What are your thoughts on this?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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My thoughts are that if she's completely comfortable, she isn't feeling that sense of being able to lose you at anytime. Or it could also mean shes feeling that if she messes up, does something you dont like, ect, that there would be no real 'repercussions'.

Most girls I've been with have either displayed nervousness, or admitted they were nervous all the time around me (But in a really good way, one said). And they've all been really into me. So. Seems good.
 
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It's psychology.

Girl sees a knife in your hand but ur smiling and next to a cake, she is excited not nervous

Girl sees a knife in your hand and ur smiling, you get the picture.

Same goes being with another sex. You are attracted so you can either TERM it nervousness or excitement. Whichever you term it will be negative or positive thinking...

Ever had an awkward situation? ...........this is because you did not know to classify it as funny and odd. odd situations go into comedy or go into awkwardness.
 
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