"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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So, should a girl be nervous around you, or completely comfortable?

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Nervous because she's very attracted, of course.

What are your thoughts on this?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

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My thoughts are that if she's completely comfortable, she isn't feeling that sense of being able to lose you at anytime. Or it could also mean shes feeling that if she messes up, does something you dont like, ect, that there would be no real 'repercussions'.

Most girls I've been with have either displayed nervousness, or admitted they were nervous all the time around me (But in a really good way, one said). And they've all been really into me. So. Seems good.
 
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It's psychology.

Girl sees a knife in your hand but ur smiling and next to a cake, she is excited not nervous

Girl sees a knife in your hand and ur smiling, you get the picture.

Same goes being with another sex. You are attracted so you can either TERM it nervousness or excitement. Whichever you term it will be negative or positive thinking...

Ever had an awkward situation? ...........this is because you did not know to classify it as funny and odd. odd situations go into comedy or go into awkwardness.
 
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