"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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So, should a girl be nervous around you, or completely comfortable?

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The_Reaper

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Nervous because she's very attracted, of course.

What are your thoughts on this?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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My thoughts are that if she's completely comfortable, she isn't feeling that sense of being able to lose you at anytime. Or it could also mean shes feeling that if she messes up, does something you dont like, ect, that there would be no real 'repercussions'.

Most girls I've been with have either displayed nervousness, or admitted they were nervous all the time around me (But in a really good way, one said). And they've all been really into me. So. Seems good.
 
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It's psychology.

Girl sees a knife in your hand but ur smiling and next to a cake, she is excited not nervous

Girl sees a knife in your hand and ur smiling, you get the picture.

Same goes being with another sex. You are attracted so you can either TERM it nervousness or excitement. Whichever you term it will be negative or positive thinking...

Ever had an awkward situation? ...........this is because you did not know to classify it as funny and odd. odd situations go into comedy or go into awkwardness.
 
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