"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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So she's a nutcase, what now?

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So, third date with girl tonight, nailed her. She then starts coming out with all this sh!t about us.

She says's I'm fat. OK, fair one, im overweight. She tells me I need to loose the weight so "You can be nice".

I made the mistake of mentioning I've applied for officer training with the army, dependent on getting my fitness levels up, and how I wanted a posting to the DET in northern Ireland. She starts going on abourt how she doesnt want me to go away and fight.

I take tablets for my medical condition and made the mistake of leaving my pills next to my bed. She starts how I need to get off them because "their no good"

I love Horror. I read any horror novel that comes out, Roleplay using the WoD system and own about 70 horror DVDs, apparently I need to get rid of them.

My other passion is writing, apparently my PC is "A pile of crap" and my writing is a "pipe dream".

So, what the hell? Is it worth this or is it a case of NEXT?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I'm not sure why you are asking us? Maybe you are venting. You know what to do. You don't change who you are for a woman - either put your foot down or use those feet for walking.
 
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eesh sounds like a right ***** the you way you put it. Not to offend you or anything
 
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Gee THAT'S ALL? Yo man I'm no DJ, i'm just in training and even I know that this one is a def. NEXT.

Don't let her try to control your life, either try to tell her to pipe down, and if she doesn't shut her yap, then give her the boot. You don't need that ****.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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she tells you not to follow your goals aims (army thing)
give up your hobby (horror films)
effecting your health (the pills)

my god theyre like the most important things to be honest

PS - i know i posted twice but im bored
 
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She just has low self-esteem and tries to bring others down to her level. Be careful that she doesn't get to you. Just don't let her comments bother you.

Laugh at her and take what she says with a grain of salt. If she gets obnoxious, tell her that she needs to get to know you better before you give a lot of weight to her suggestions about changes you need to make."
 
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