"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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So she's a nutcase, what now?

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So, third date with girl tonight, nailed her. She then starts coming out with all this sh!t about us.

She says's I'm fat. OK, fair one, im overweight. She tells me I need to loose the weight so "You can be nice".

I made the mistake of mentioning I've applied for officer training with the army, dependent on getting my fitness levels up, and how I wanted a posting to the DET in northern Ireland. She starts going on abourt how she doesnt want me to go away and fight.

I take tablets for my medical condition and made the mistake of leaving my pills next to my bed. She starts how I need to get off them because "their no good"

I love Horror. I read any horror novel that comes out, Roleplay using the WoD system and own about 70 horror DVDs, apparently I need to get rid of them.

My other passion is writing, apparently my PC is "A pile of crap" and my writing is a "pipe dream".

So, what the hell? Is it worth this or is it a case of NEXT?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'm not sure why you are asking us? Maybe you are venting. You know what to do. You don't change who you are for a woman - either put your foot down or use those feet for walking.
 
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eesh sounds like a right ***** the you way you put it. Not to offend you or anything
 
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Gee THAT'S ALL? Yo man I'm no DJ, i'm just in training and even I know that this one is a def. NEXT.

Don't let her try to control your life, either try to tell her to pipe down, and if she doesn't shut her yap, then give her the boot. You don't need that ****.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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she tells you not to follow your goals aims (army thing)
give up your hobby (horror films)
effecting your health (the pills)

my god theyre like the most important things to be honest

PS - i know i posted twice but im bored
 
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She just has low self-esteem and tries to bring others down to her level. Be careful that she doesn't get to you. Just don't let her comments bother you.

Laugh at her and take what she says with a grain of salt. If she gets obnoxious, tell her that she needs to get to know you better before you give a lot of weight to her suggestions about changes you need to make."
 
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