So she says (about me) "His girlfriend must have him whipped" (IL?)

[Drex]

I've been training this new girl at work (bartending) and she's a real cutey, single. I've been very C&F with her for the 2 shifts I've worked with her and always have her smiling/giggling. So as I am leaving work last night one of the other girls I work with asks me if I was going to stay and have a drink. I said nah, I'm going to head out and new girl says "his girlfriend must have him whipped" and smiles at me. I said "naaahhh, I cant be whipped!" and smiled back.

Whenever a girl with possible interest mentions a girlfriend like that does it mean she may be interested or does she have to straight out ask me if I have one?

I'm pretty reluctant in asking out a girl I work with because of that fear of being rejected and then having to see her all the time at work and the possibility of every other coworker knowing I got shot down! So I really need a good sign that she is interested before I make a move.

 

[Czar]

edit: my mistake, I read too quickly, I thought there were two new girls.

 

[JohnGalt]

If you want to, just ask her out. I really doubt the other workers are going to care that much anyway. In other words, do what you want regardless of what other people think.

Also, I wouldn't try to waste so much time interpreting what broads think. That's what women do with guys and they go crazy considering all the posibilities. You are a man and you shouldn't have the time to waste on such bull****.

Keep up the progress.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Tell her that currently you are not seeing anyone worthy to be "whipped" over. Ask her if she would like to attempt to 'whip' you, and go hang out somewhere outside of the bar scene.

 

[Drex]

Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
Tell her that currently you are not seeing anyone worthy to be "whipped" over. Ask her if she would like to attempt to 'whip' you, and go hang out somewhere outside of the bar scene.

Hah good one. Too bad that moment has passed, maybe if she says it again.

 

[Knicknack]

i'd just reverse it on them:

girl: his girlfriend must have him whipped.

you: naw, i just can't socialize with dorks for too long.