"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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So she says (about me) "His girlfriend must have him whipped" (IL?)

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I've been training this new girl at work (bartending) and she's a real cutey, single. I've been very C&F with her for the 2 shifts I've worked with her and always have her smiling/giggling. So as I am leaving work last night one of the other girls I work with asks me if I was going to stay and have a drink. I said nah, I'm going to head out and new girl says "his girlfriend must have him whipped" and smiles at me. I said "naaahhh, I cant be whipped!" and smiled back.

Whenever a girl with possible interest mentions a girlfriend like that does it mean she may be interested or does she have to straight out ask me if I have one?

I'm pretty reluctant in asking out a girl I work with because of that fear of being rejected and then having to see her all the time at work and the possibility of every other coworker knowing I got shot down! So I really need a good sign that she is interested before I make a move.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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edit: my mistake, I read too quickly, I thought there were two new girls.
 
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If you want to, just ask her out. I really doubt the other workers are going to care that much anyway. In other words, do what you want regardless of what other people think.

Also, I wouldn't try to waste so much time interpreting what broads think. That's what women do with guys and they go crazy considering all the posibilities. You are a man and you shouldn't have the time to waste on such bull****.

Keep up the progress.
 
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Tell her that currently you are not seeing anyone worthy to be "whipped" over. Ask her if she would like to attempt to 'whip' you, and go hang out somewhere outside of the bar scene.
 
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Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
Tell her that currently you are not seeing anyone worthy to be "whipped" over. Ask her if she would like to attempt to 'whip' you, and go hang out somewhere outside of the bar scene.
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Hah good one. Too bad that moment has passed, maybe if she says it again. :)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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i'd just reverse it on them:

girl: his girlfriend must have him whipped.

you: naw, i just can't socialize with dorks for too long.
 
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