"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So she said yes... Now what?

crimsonclockwork

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So I asked this girl out the other day. Finally thought this one was worth my time to persue a relationship. Dated around for a month or so. Asked her out while doing 110 down some road. If that wasn't different, I don't know what is. Anyways. What to do now? Links, advice, anything. Thanks guys.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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maybe she didn't wnaty to die in a car accident, so she said eys so you wouldn't get sad? lol.

uhm...keep her interested? DJ that ****. Play ti like nothin changed, except now shes tied down, you're the onyl one gettin ***** from her. Don't get jealous...
and jsut be the DJ u are man. not hard.
 

crimsonclockwork

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Dj bible really focuses on playing girls. And yea... Im still being the DJ. Doing real stuff that keeps her interested in me. Making out in a dressing room. That gets them going.
 
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