"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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So she said yes... Now what?

crimsonclockwork

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So I asked this girl out the other day. Finally thought this one was worth my time to persue a relationship. Dated around for a month or so. Asked her out while doing 110 down some road. If that wasn't different, I don't know what is. Anyways. What to do now? Links, advice, anything. Thanks guys.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Patrick124

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maybe she didn't wnaty to die in a car accident, so she said eys so you wouldn't get sad? lol.

uhm...keep her interested? DJ that ****. Play ti like nothin changed, except now shes tied down, you're the onyl one gettin ***** from her. Don't get jealous...
and jsut be the DJ u are man. not hard.
 

crimsonclockwork

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Dj bible really focuses on playing girls. And yea... Im still being the DJ. Doing real stuff that keeps her interested in me. Making out in a dressing room. That gets them going.
 
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