"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
So she is always playing around punching me or stuff like that, but what do I do?
- Thread starter newb
- Start date
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
WesCottII
Master Don Juan
Poke her till she "submits"
The possibilities are endless....
WesCottII
Master Don Juan
Broham
Senior Don Juan
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
DonJuanMonk
Master Don Juan
Wes hit it right on the nose. She is initiating kino but it is grade school kino.
She sounds like she is not well developed socially or emotionally.
She is expressing herself physically. She wants to be touched, hit back. She initiates physical contact the best way she knows how.
Toss her on the ground, couch, bed and follow WesCott's lead.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
AS LONG AS YOU DON'T GO PAST THAT IMAGINARY LINE THAT STANDS BETWEEN: BEING PLAYFULL, AND ASSOLTING SOMBODY....
penkitten
Master Don Juan
when girls like boys , they are mean to them and hit and kick at them.
dont ask me why, cause i dont know why.
it is just that way.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
johnmich
Senior Don Juan
If she doesnt smile, say
'sorry, i was going for the other one!'
