"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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So she is always playing around punching me or stuff like that, but what do I do?

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How do I act to not look like a fool? Most of the time I playfully grab her hands and then kind of hold her(but not in a romantic type way...still playful so she cant move much).

What's the best action here?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

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WesCottII

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Pick her up over your shoulder.
Poke her till she "submits"

The possibilities are endless....
 

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or Ill tickle her, but she usually ends up whining right away so I stop
 

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I used to have a girl that did this....we used to end up wrestling/play fighting. The first time I ever kissed her was when I threw her onto the bed, and landed on top of her face to face.....it's a great way yo have fun, and get kino in....
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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She's trying to get a rise out of you, do nothing.
 

Paradox

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Originally posted by WesCottII
I used to have a girl that did this....we used to end up wrestling/play fighting. The first time I ever kissed her was when I threw her onto the bed, and landed on top of her face to face.....it's a great way yo have fun, and get kino in....

Wes hit it right on the nose. She is initiating kino but it is grade school kino.

She sounds like she is not well developed socially or emotionally.

She is expressing herself physically. She wants to be touched, hit back. She initiates physical contact the best way she knows how.

Toss her on the ground, couch, bed and follow WesCott's lead.
 

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so when she kind of whines/complains a little when I get her back is that just part of the game?
 

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of sorse she is gona yell "ohh plaease stop, don't, ha ha ha, please he he he....." wouldn't you!!!!!!

AS LONG AS YOU DON'T GO PAST THAT IMAGINARY LINE THAT STANDS BETWEEN: BEING PLAYFULL, AND ASSOLTING SOMBODY....
 

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go in for the kiss!

when girls like boys , they are mean to them and hit and kick at them.
dont ask me why, cause i dont know why.
it is just that way.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Try touching her boob like Boham said, if she smiles your in.

If she doesnt smile, say

'sorry, i was going for the other one!'

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