"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
So she is always playing around punching me or stuff like that, but what do I do?
- Thread starter newb
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
WesCottII
Master Don Juan
Poke her till she "submits"
The possibilities are endless....
WesCottII
Master Don Juan
Broham
Senior Don Juan
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
DonJuanMonk
Master Don Juan
Wes hit it right on the nose. She is initiating kino but it is grade school kino.
She sounds like she is not well developed socially or emotionally.
She is expressing herself physically. She wants to be touched, hit back. She initiates physical contact the best way she knows how.
Toss her on the ground, couch, bed and follow WesCott's lead.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
AS LONG AS YOU DON'T GO PAST THAT IMAGINARY LINE THAT STANDS BETWEEN: BEING PLAYFULL, AND ASSOLTING SOMBODY....
penkitten
Master Don Juan
when girls like boys , they are mean to them and hit and kick at them.
dont ask me why, cause i dont know why.
it is just that way.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
johnmich
Senior Don Juan
If she doesnt smile, say
'sorry, i was going for the other one!'
