"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
So she is always playing around punching me or stuff like that, but what do I do?
- Thread starter newb
- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
WesCottII
Master Don Juan
Poke her till she "submits"
The possibilities are endless....
WesCottII
Master Don Juan
Broham
Senior Don Juan
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
DonJuanMonk
Master Don Juan
Wes hit it right on the nose. She is initiating kino but it is grade school kino.
She sounds like she is not well developed socially or emotionally.
She is expressing herself physically. She wants to be touched, hit back. She initiates physical contact the best way she knows how.
Toss her on the ground, couch, bed and follow WesCott's lead.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
AS LONG AS YOU DON'T GO PAST THAT IMAGINARY LINE THAT STANDS BETWEEN: BEING PLAYFULL, AND ASSOLTING SOMBODY....
penkitten
Master Don Juan
when girls like boys , they are mean to them and hit and kick at them.
dont ask me why, cause i dont know why.
it is just that way.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
johnmich
Senior Don Juan
If she doesnt smile, say
'sorry, i was going for the other one!'
