"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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So she hasn't responded to your text or calls A.S.A.P!!

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Ok. So the HB 1,000,000 3/4 you just met, had great rapport with, kissed etc. hasn't responded to your text or phone call A.S.A.P!!

Should you NEEEEEEXXXXTT her??

Spin more plates till you hurl??

Hit the gym till you blow your back out??

Go DJ Ninja No Contact to the 10th power??

Or maybe Skippy...just maybe..take a deeeep breath, exhale, and possibly consider she just 'might' have a life just like you should and will get back to you when she has free time?

Don't pressure chicks and let your mind go berserk thinking the worst. You are a busy man (who hopefully doesn't need someone to 'complete' themselves as if they are broken already) with a life of your own until you both POSSIBLY grow and become one.

The sun will still come out tomorrow even IF she never texts or calls you back. That's a promise kids!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Agreed.

Admittedly it's something I struggled with in the past, but no longer.

Life is too short to worry about a text.

When you think of any cool, GQ-esque type of dude that we strive to be, can you picture any of them moping around because a girl either 1.) didn't reply to a text or 2.) replied late?

they're too busy doing awesome things to notice

texting, facebooking, phone calls, none of that stuff is serious. how they treat you in person is all that matters.
 
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JPlaya said:
Let her finish blowing that guy then she'll get to you.
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Who's to say she isn't blowing that guy when she responds to your text anyway? All you can do is hope she has the courtesy to not text you back with THAT guy's spooge on her fingers.
 
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