"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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So she hasn't responded to your text or calls A.S.A.P!!

Naughty Ninja

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Ok. So the HB 1,000,000 3/4 you just met, had great rapport with, kissed etc. hasn't responded to your text or phone call A.S.A.P!!

Should you NEEEEEEXXXXTT her??

Spin more plates till you hurl??

Hit the gym till you blow your back out??

Go DJ Ninja No Contact to the 10th power??

Or maybe Skippy...just maybe..take a deeeep breath, exhale, and possibly consider she just 'might' have a life just like you should and will get back to you when she has free time?

Don't pressure chicks and let your mind go berserk thinking the worst. You are a busy man (who hopefully doesn't need someone to 'complete' themselves as if they are broken already) with a life of your own until you both POSSIBLY grow and become one.

The sun will still come out tomorrow even IF she never texts or calls you back. That's a promise kids!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Agreed.

Admittedly it's something I struggled with in the past, but no longer.

Life is too short to worry about a text.

When you think of any cool, GQ-esque type of dude that we strive to be, can you picture any of them moping around because a girl either 1.) didn't reply to a text or 2.) replied late?

they're too busy doing awesome things to notice

texting, facebooking, phone calls, none of that stuff is serious. how they treat you in person is all that matters.
 

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JPlaya said:
Let her finish blowing that guy then she'll get to you.
Who's to say she isn't blowing that guy when she responds to your text anyway? All you can do is hope she has the courtesy to not text you back with THAT guy's spooge on her fingers.
 
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