"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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So she hasn't responded to your text or calls A.S.A.P!!

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Ok. So the HB 1,000,000 3/4 you just met, had great rapport with, kissed etc. hasn't responded to your text or phone call A.S.A.P!!

Should you NEEEEEEXXXXTT her??

Spin more plates till you hurl??

Hit the gym till you blow your back out??

Go DJ Ninja No Contact to the 10th power??

Or maybe Skippy...just maybe..take a deeeep breath, exhale, and possibly consider she just 'might' have a life just like you should and will get back to you when she has free time?

Don't pressure chicks and let your mind go berserk thinking the worst. You are a busy man (who hopefully doesn't need someone to 'complete' themselves as if they are broken already) with a life of your own until you both POSSIBLY grow and become one.

The sun will still come out tomorrow even IF she never texts or calls you back. That's a promise kids!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Agreed.

Admittedly it's something I struggled with in the past, but no longer.

Life is too short to worry about a text.

When you think of any cool, GQ-esque type of dude that we strive to be, can you picture any of them moping around because a girl either 1.) didn't reply to a text or 2.) replied late?

they're too busy doing awesome things to notice

texting, facebooking, phone calls, none of that stuff is serious. how they treat you in person is all that matters.
 
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JPlaya said:
Let her finish blowing that guy then she'll get to you.
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Who's to say she isn't blowing that guy when she responds to your text anyway? All you can do is hope she has the courtesy to not text you back with THAT guy's spooge on her fingers.
 
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