ok i met this girl thursday at a friends pool they go to school together and i go to another school there was zero chance of isolating this girl and closing but we had amazing eye contact from both of us that was really obvious and we both knew what was going on and i could tell she wanted to talk to me but we were in the pool and there was NOTHING to do just a really borring and akward situation but we both knew through the eye contact alone what was up at one point i saw her looking at me out of the corner of my eye and i locked eyes with her and gave her this huge smile and she giggled and turned her back and started talking to her friend and said something about, "there are to many thoughts going through my head right now" followed by giggles she was flirty but it was dark and borring and just a bad situation really so i found her on facebook and messaged her saying how boring the pool was and how she should hang out when something is actually going on and she replied, "yeah im free to do it anytime!" should i just respond back like ok whats your number and i will call you and we can do something this weekend? just kind curious about how to word it im going to do it no matter what just seeing how you guys would word it
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
so obvious
- Thread starter Stags09
- Start date
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
drummer
Senior Don Juan
1) get balls
2) get her number
3) hang out
4) hook up
2) get her number
3) hang out
4) hook up
Make sure not to ask for her number, force her (for a lack of a better word) to give it to you. For example:
Dont say: Hey, can I have your number?
Say: Give me your number and we'll hang out this weekend.
Well I guess thats what you were going to say in the first place...im bad at giving advice lol
Dont say: Hey, can I have your number?
Say: Give me your number and we'll hang out this weekend.
Well I guess thats what you were going to say in the first place...im bad at giving advice lol
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.