ok i met this girl thursday at a friends pool they go to school together and i go to another school there was zero chance of isolating this girl and closing but we had amazing eye contact from both of us that was really obvious and we both knew what was going on and i could tell she wanted to talk to me but we were in the pool and there was NOTHING to do just a really borring and akward situation but we both knew through the eye contact alone what was up at one point i saw her looking at me out of the corner of my eye and i locked eyes with her and gave her this huge smile and she giggled and turned her back and started talking to her friend and said something about, "there are to many thoughts going through my head right now" followed by giggles she was flirty but it was dark and borring and just a bad situation really so i found her on facebook and messaged her saying how boring the pool was and how she should hang out when something is actually going on and she replied, "yeah im free to do it anytime!" should i just respond back like ok whats your number and i will call you and we can do something this weekend? just kind curious about how to word it im going to do it no matter what just seeing how you guys would word it
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
so obvious
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- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Senior Don Juan
1) get balls
2) get her number
3) hang out
4) hook up
2) get her number
3) hang out
4) hook up
Make sure not to ask for her number, force her (for a lack of a better word) to give it to you. For example:
Dont say: Hey, can I have your number?
Say: Give me your number and we'll hang out this weekend.
Well I guess thats what you were going to say in the first place...im bad at giving advice lol
Dont say: Hey, can I have your number?
Say: Give me your number and we'll hang out this weekend.
Well I guess thats what you were going to say in the first place...im bad at giving advice lol
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