"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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So, nows my chance for a 6 pack for the first time in my life.

Borknagar

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At 46 years old. When I signed up for this site I was about 270 or so and ballooned up to 300-320 for the next several years after, lost it down to about 220 in 2008 and kept between that and 240 until 2012 when I met my ex wife and was over 50 lb overweight or more since then.

I'm now literally less than 10lb away from a "normal" bmi however a good portion of this is a combination of diet change and weight loss being a side effect of new meds.

I seriously need to get to the gym. Zero % of this is gym related. I do have dumbells. Luckily no significant change from any other time i took a break but since I'm starting fresh looking like this? I should have crazy results since I'm not starting out fat again like every other time I got lazy.

Damn crazy though. For a moment last week I was 199lb. 199! That's nuts for me. My only recollection of weight in my youth is my dad laughing at me when I went over 200lb in 10th grade.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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