"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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So, nows my chance for a 6 pack for the first time in my life.

Borknagar

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At 46 years old. When I signed up for this site I was about 270 or so and ballooned up to 300-320 for the next several years after, lost it down to about 220 in 2008 and kept between that and 240 until 2012 when I met my ex wife and was over 50 lb overweight or more since then.

I'm now literally less than 10lb away from a "normal" bmi however a good portion of this is a combination of diet change and weight loss being a side effect of new meds.

I seriously need to get to the gym. Zero % of this is gym related. I do have dumbells. Luckily no significant change from any other time i took a break but since I'm starting fresh looking like this? I should have crazy results since I'm not starting out fat again like every other time I got lazy.

Damn crazy though. For a moment last week I was 199lb. 199! That's nuts for me. My only recollection of weight in my youth is my dad laughing at me when I went over 200lb in 10th grade.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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