"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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So, nows my chance for a 6 pack for the first time in my life.

Borknagar

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At 46 years old. When I signed up for this site I was about 270 or so and ballooned up to 300-320 for the next several years after, lost it down to about 220 in 2008 and kept between that and 240 until 2012 when I met my ex wife and was over 50 lb overweight or more since then.

I'm now literally less than 10lb away from a "normal" bmi however a good portion of this is a combination of diet change and weight loss being a side effect of new meds.

I seriously need to get to the gym. Zero % of this is gym related. I do have dumbells. Luckily no significant change from any other time i took a break but since I'm starting fresh looking like this? I should have crazy results since I'm not starting out fat again like every other time I got lazy.

Damn crazy though. For a moment last week I was 199lb. 199! That's nuts for me. My only recollection of weight in my youth is my dad laughing at me when I went over 200lb in 10th grade.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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