"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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So Now I Want My Girlfriend's Best Friend...

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Skepsis

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Okay, I'm not sleeze, I swear. She has it coming to her, I can't deal with her (14 months!)

Anyways, I'm fairly sure she (the friend) likes me, but she's loyal to my girlfriend.

Whenever we hang out there's a lot of touching, glances, and smiles.

I kind of just want to put it out on the line but don't know how to work around the obvious problem.

I was going to just start texting her and work from there, but it sounds pointless and boring.

Suggestions?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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comic_relief

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Step One: Break up with the girlfriend

Without this, you are setting yourself up for big pain.

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Ambition Now

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Hard situation, some girls have no ethics about this, some do... Try to find out what kind the friend of your GF is...
The best way is to try to your GF break up with you, and after that you game her friend, I wouldnt make any moves before this...
 
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DJDamage

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The potential of this could go either way, you either going to hit it or both girls are going to drop you like a sack of potato, if you attempt to make a move. For all you know the GF friend is just an attention wh0re.

This is too close to home. If you were spinning plates I would have told you that its never a good idea for Girl A to know anything about Girl B.
 
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