"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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So Now I Want My Girlfriend's Best Friend...

Skepsis

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Okay, I'm not sleeze, I swear. She has it coming to her, I can't deal with her (14 months!)

Anyways, I'm fairly sure she (the friend) likes me, but she's loyal to my girlfriend.

Whenever we hang out there's a lot of touching, glances, and smiles.

I kind of just want to put it out on the line but don't know how to work around the obvious problem.

I was going to just start texting her and work from there, but it sounds pointless and boring.

Suggestions?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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comic_relief

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Step One: Break up with the girlfriend

Without this, you are setting yourself up for big pain.

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Ambition Now

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Hard situation, some girls have no ethics about this, some do... Try to find out what kind the friend of your GF is...
The best way is to try to your GF break up with you, and after that you game her friend, I wouldnt make any moves before this...
 

DJDamage

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The potential of this could go either way, you either going to hit it or both girls are going to drop you like a sack of potato, if you attempt to make a move. For all you know the GF friend is just an attention wh0re.

This is too close to home. If you were spinning plates I would have told you that its never a good idea for Girl A to know anything about Girl B.
 
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