"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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So Now I Want My Girlfriend's Best Friend...

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Skepsis

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Okay, I'm not sleeze, I swear. She has it coming to her, I can't deal with her (14 months!)

Anyways, I'm fairly sure she (the friend) likes me, but she's loyal to my girlfriend.

Whenever we hang out there's a lot of touching, glances, and smiles.

I kind of just want to put it out on the line but don't know how to work around the obvious problem.

I was going to just start texting her and work from there, but it sounds pointless and boring.

Suggestions?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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comic_relief

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Step One: Break up with the girlfriend

Without this, you are setting yourself up for big pain.

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Ambition Now

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Hard situation, some girls have no ethics about this, some do... Try to find out what kind the friend of your GF is...
The best way is to try to your GF break up with you, and after that you game her friend, I wouldnt make any moves before this...
 
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DJDamage

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The potential of this could go either way, you either going to hit it or both girls are going to drop you like a sack of potato, if you attempt to make a move. For all you know the GF friend is just an attention wh0re.

This is too close to home. If you were spinning plates I would have told you that its never a good idea for Girl A to know anything about Girl B.
 
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