BigWillyStyle
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So my GF came over my place yesterday and told me a little secret she said I should know. Actually, I wish I didn't know as I've now lost some respect for her, had she not told me it would have been a case of ignorance is bliss.
So here goes. My GF told me she got out of her last relationship at the end of June last year. So she's been single for about 8 months since we started dating.
Thing is she says, at about mid November last year she met a guy at a bar. He seemed nice so they became friends, then a month later so just before xmas
she said in her words:
"I was lonely having being single for about 5 months, I haven't had a fvck in 5 months and was getting sexually frustrated, I trusted my new friend and him being single too we decided to set up a fvck buddy relationship on the pretence that if we find a partner we call the fvck buddy relationship off. Which I have, Will"
I didn't say much after that and said I'm feeling tired and start work early tomorrow, which is bull**** I got a rostered day off today. I said we'll talk about it tomorrow.
I'm a hypocrite but fvck buddy relationships for women feel degrading and vile to me, I wouldn't have a problem if she slept with 100 boyfriends, but having a strictly SEX ONLY no strings attached relationship makes girls look dirty and slutty in my opinion.
It double stings too because a couple days earlier(when i thought she was a saint)she was talking about how she doesn't rush things and doesn't believe in One Night Stands etc but because she was sexually frustrated, single and in need of "a fvck coz it's been 5 months" it was ok at the time, even though she says she probably wouldn't do something like that again. She "Just doesn't want to be somebodys piece of ass" as she put it.
I don't know, we haven't been going out long, but she'll fvck some guy as a fvck buddy thing but won't put out for her BF(ME!) who she's in a relationship with yet...
She's been calling all day and leaving me test msg'es on my cell phone I've just been ignoring them all. I don't know what to do. I mean she's great though, I just thought she was more "innocent"... What too do. Also another thing, she said she's wants to see him as friends though still, if thats ok with me. I just said "yeah I guess so"
Agghh, anyone here had a GF they thought was innocent but then said they had a fvck buddy as little as 2 months ago? I don't know, everytime I think of her I think of this fvck buddy "Simon". Her getting fvcked hard and her loving it.... agghhh I can't erase it. As I said I wouldn't have a problem if she had a 100 previous BF's and she fvcked them all, but Fvck buddy relationships make me lose lots of respect for the girl...
Sorry this is my longest thread ever, but I had to get out all the details. So, Advice pleeeease?
So here goes. My GF told me she got out of her last relationship at the end of June last year. So she's been single for about 8 months since we started dating.
Thing is she says, at about mid November last year she met a guy at a bar. He seemed nice so they became friends, then a month later so just before xmas
she said in her words:
"I was lonely having being single for about 5 months, I haven't had a fvck in 5 months and was getting sexually frustrated, I trusted my new friend and him being single too we decided to set up a fvck buddy relationship on the pretence that if we find a partner we call the fvck buddy relationship off. Which I have, Will"
I didn't say much after that and said I'm feeling tired and start work early tomorrow, which is bull**** I got a rostered day off today. I said we'll talk about it tomorrow.
I'm a hypocrite but fvck buddy relationships for women feel degrading and vile to me, I wouldn't have a problem if she slept with 100 boyfriends, but having a strictly SEX ONLY no strings attached relationship makes girls look dirty and slutty in my opinion.
It double stings too because a couple days earlier(when i thought she was a saint)she was talking about how she doesn't rush things and doesn't believe in One Night Stands etc but because she was sexually frustrated, single and in need of "a fvck coz it's been 5 months" it was ok at the time, even though she says she probably wouldn't do something like that again. She "Just doesn't want to be somebodys piece of ass" as she put it.
I don't know, we haven't been going out long, but she'll fvck some guy as a fvck buddy thing but won't put out for her BF(ME!) who she's in a relationship with yet...
She's been calling all day and leaving me test msg'es on my cell phone I've just been ignoring them all. I don't know what to do. I mean she's great though, I just thought she was more "innocent"... What too do. Also another thing, she said she's wants to see him as friends though still, if thats ok with me. I just said "yeah I guess so"
Agghh, anyone here had a GF they thought was innocent but then said they had a fvck buddy as little as 2 months ago? I don't know, everytime I think of her I think of this fvck buddy "Simon". Her getting fvcked hard and her loving it.... agghhh I can't erase it. As I said I wouldn't have a problem if she had a 100 previous BF's and she fvcked them all, but Fvck buddy relationships make me lose lots of respect for the girl...
Sorry this is my longest thread ever, but I had to get out all the details. So, Advice pleeeease?