"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
So my GF posted this note on facebook...
- Thread starter Triple T
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
GaryUranga
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THen i just countered with "What do YOU think of me then?"
Edit:
Alright well she replied wiiith:
"
i think you are funny, sweet, nice, cute, caring, loveable, muscular, screaamish hahaha, always fun to be around, amzing, trustworthy, thoughtful, outgoing, & you have a gorgeeoouuuss smile"
awwwwe...how cute.
Michele l'Arcangelo
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don't relpy. still.
or just reply with saying she knows how you feel, and you don't need to express it through facebook.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Beast from the East
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Have you banged her?Triple T said:
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
DonGorgon
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Any serious response on facebook will make you sound AFC.
Either ignore it or throw in something funny like "you are a piece of meat but you also have brains which is why I keep on chasing you"
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
haha not yet...Beast from the East said:
But she shows tons of interest, shes basically chasing after me.
Talking to me on MSN right when I log in, going over to my table when I'm eating lunch with friends.
Seems like she talks about me lots too...her friends bet with her that she couldn't talk about me for 2 days straight.
lol you guys predicted right...bunch of guys were like "Your my friend"
Then this one guy is like "Your more than a friend...your family"
this is entertaining...watching guys trying to get my girl
but all the other chicks she knows wrote a fricken essay about what she means to them
...girls these days
She is attention whoring i guess...for her message thingy on facebook she put "Reply to my note!"