"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
So my GF posted this note on facebook...
- Thread starter Triple T
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
GaryUranga
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THen i just countered with "What do YOU think of me then?"
Edit:
Alright well she replied wiiith:
"
i think you are funny, sweet, nice, cute, caring, loveable, muscular, screaamish hahaha, always fun to be around, amzing, trustworthy, thoughtful, outgoing, & you have a gorgeeoouuuss smile"
awwwwe...how cute.
Michele l'Arcangelo
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don't relpy. still.
or just reply with saying she knows how you feel, and you don't need to express it through facebook.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Beast from the East
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Have you banged her?Triple T said:
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
DonGorgon
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Any serious response on facebook will make you sound AFC.
Either ignore it or throw in something funny like "you are a piece of meat but you also have brains which is why I keep on chasing you"
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
haha not yet...Beast from the East said:
But she shows tons of interest, shes basically chasing after me.
Talking to me on MSN right when I log in, going over to my table when I'm eating lunch with friends.
Seems like she talks about me lots too...her friends bet with her that she couldn't talk about me for 2 days straight.
lol you guys predicted right...bunch of guys were like "Your my friend"
Then this one guy is like "Your more than a friend...your family"
this is entertaining...watching guys trying to get my girl
but all the other chicks she knows wrote a fricken essay about what she means to them
...girls these days
She is attention whoring i guess...for her message thingy on facebook she put "Reply to my note!"