"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
So much hate for women on this site :(
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
BlackJackal
Master Don Juan
LiveFreeX
Banned
Found mine plus a huge surplus if anyone wants hookups, there are an estimated 350 million young country-side women looking for marriage (virgins), they are out here in the Chinese country-side. They hold down the fort, do housework, cook and take care of babies. They are fantastic at their jobs, petite, feminine and they don't complain or compete. They DO go to do jobs if the family can't afford to live but most would rather stay home and be mothers. My wife knows her place, I just finished reading through the thread with her. She agrees that western women are nuts.
Boycott american women, marry eastern.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
faq's:
1. this is actually a men's website. it was a man's idea to make a website set up for men to go to and post their best tips to help other men be successful with women. that man owns the site. he currently has men moderators running the site.
2. 99.9% of the people that post on this board are male.
3. however you are not the only female to find this site. some females post really great threads and articles and have wonderful conversations that lead to lots of thought and debate.... then there are other females who find this site and come in for attention and then get all pissed off and leave.
which one will you become?
4. most of the things written are very personal. if a newbie attacks or baits a long time member, you will get eaten alive in this forum. please keep that in mind.
5. most of the things written are generalizations coming from another individual who is fed up and needs a place to vent. do not take it as an insult to yourself, as the person that posted something doesn't personally know you. do not internalize it to the point where we need to turn on that old hit "you're so vain - you probally think this song is about you."
6. when you are a newbie, you don't know the other members yet. you must read their posts for a while or reply back and forth to get to know them. you will learn the difference between when someone is being honest, when someone is making a joke and when someone is venting it all or when someone is angry. please do not assume every single thing is serious here.
7.you have to take all advice given here with a grain of salt. no one knows what it is like to be you. you also do not know each member yet- so you don't know if you are taking advice from someone with any experience or knowledge OR if you are taking advice from a 14 year old.
8. there is a section at the bottom called the bible and on the front page there is a section of hall of fame. the really good stuff gets to go in there.
even for females.
9. there is a search button at the top of the screen that you can find just about everything. that is a great feature on this site.
10. give the site a chance and you may find that you can learn a lot from the other members here. sometimes you find out ways to improve yourself.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Thank you for this! i am actually not trying to create enemies here, whilst i may not agree with what some of you's have posted on THIS thread, i say each to their own. As i said i use this site and board to better myself and game, and whilst its mainly directed at men trying to pick up women, as a bi girl i can still use some of it for my own needs and knowledge. No hard feelings here!penkitten said:
opcorn:wait_out
Master Don Juan
I'm pretty sure they are coming from Rollo's blog -- and he is a mod here. Put 2+2 together.Zarky said:
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.