I love you.Kbomb said:Jesus said it best, "F^ck you douchebag's who blame other people for your own shortcomings, and stop sucking each others D*icks."
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I love you.Kbomb said:Jesus said it best, "F^ck you douchebag's who blame other people for your own shortcomings, and stop sucking each others D*icks."
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Found mine plus a huge surplus if anyone wants hookups, there are an estimated 350 million young country-side women looking for marriage (virgins), they are out here in the Chinese country-side. They hold down the fort, do housework, cook and take care of babies. They are fantastic at their jobs, petite, feminine and they don't complain or compete. They DO go to do jobs if the family can't afford to live but most would rather stay home and be mothers. My wife knows her place, I just finished reading through the thread with her. She agrees that western women are nuts.But yeah good luck finding an old fashioned chick who will do things that women in the 50s used to do...take it from me, they dont exist anymore!! very rare.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
It does appear that it's growing. I think it's because all the guys who are actually successful with women have gone elsewhere and the only ones left are the loonies. Kind of like the republican party.I havent posted here in a while but i have recently come back and have been lurking these forums for a bit now and it upsets me to see such a resentment for women
Thank you for this! i am actually not trying to create enemies here, whilst i may not agree with what some of you's have posted on THIS thread, i say each to their own. As i said i use this site and board to better myself and game, and whilst its mainly directed at men trying to pick up women, as a bi girl i can still use some of it for my own needs and knowledge. No hard feelings here!penkitten said:welcome to the site....
faq's:
1. this is actually a men's website. it was a man's idea to make a website set up for men to go to and post their best tips to help other men be successful with women. that man owns the site. he currently has men moderators running the site.
2. 99.9% of the people that post on this board are male.
3. however you are not the only female to find this site. some females post really great threads and articles and have wonderful conversations that lead to lots of thought and debate.... then there are other females who find this site and come in for attention and then get all pissed off and leave.
which one will you become?
4. most of the things written are very personal. if a newbie attacks or baits a long time member, you will get eaten alive in this forum. please keep that in mind.
5. most of the things written are generalizations coming from another individual who is fed up and needs a place to vent. do not take it as an insult to yourself, as the person that posted something doesn't personally know you. do not internalize it to the point where we need to turn on that old hit "you're so vain - you probally think this song is about you."
6. when you are a newbie, you don't know the other members yet. you must read their posts for a while or reply back and forth to get to know them. you will learn the difference between when someone is being honest, when someone is making a joke and when someone is venting it all or when someone is angry. please do not assume every single thing is serious here.
7.you have to take all advice given here with a grain of salt. no one knows what it is like to be you. you also do not know each member yet- so you don't know if you are taking advice from someone with any experience or knowledge OR if you are taking advice from a 14 year old.
8. there is a section at the bottom called the bible and on the front page there is a section of hall of fame. the really good stuff gets to go in there.
even for females.
9. there is a search button at the top of the screen that you can find just about everything. that is a great feature on this site.
10. give the site a chance and you may find that you can learn a lot from the other members here. sometimes you find out ways to improve yourself.
I'm pretty sure they are coming from Rollo's blog -- and he is a mod here. Put 2+2 together.Zarky said:It does appear that it's growing. I think it's because all the guys who are actually successful with women have gone elsewhere and the only ones left are the loonies. Kind of like the republican party.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.