"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
So much hate for women on this site :(
- Thread starter djgirl
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
BlackJackal
Master Don Juan
LiveFreeX
Banned
Found mine plus a huge surplus if anyone wants hookups, there are an estimated 350 million young country-side women looking for marriage (virgins), they are out here in the Chinese country-side. They hold down the fort, do housework, cook and take care of babies. They are fantastic at their jobs, petite, feminine and they don't complain or compete. They DO go to do jobs if the family can't afford to live but most would rather stay home and be mothers. My wife knows her place, I just finished reading through the thread with her. She agrees that western women are nuts.
Boycott american women, marry eastern.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
faq's:
1. this is actually a men's website. it was a man's idea to make a website set up for men to go to and post their best tips to help other men be successful with women. that man owns the site. he currently has men moderators running the site.
2. 99.9% of the people that post on this board are male.
3. however you are not the only female to find this site. some females post really great threads and articles and have wonderful conversations that lead to lots of thought and debate.... then there are other females who find this site and come in for attention and then get all pissed off and leave.
which one will you become?
4. most of the things written are very personal. if a newbie attacks or baits a long time member, you will get eaten alive in this forum. please keep that in mind.
5. most of the things written are generalizations coming from another individual who is fed up and needs a place to vent. do not take it as an insult to yourself, as the person that posted something doesn't personally know you. do not internalize it to the point where we need to turn on that old hit "you're so vain - you probally think this song is about you."
6. when you are a newbie, you don't know the other members yet. you must read their posts for a while or reply back and forth to get to know them. you will learn the difference between when someone is being honest, when someone is making a joke and when someone is venting it all or when someone is angry. please do not assume every single thing is serious here.
7.you have to take all advice given here with a grain of salt. no one knows what it is like to be you. you also do not know each member yet- so you don't know if you are taking advice from someone with any experience or knowledge OR if you are taking advice from a 14 year old.
8. there is a section at the bottom called the bible and on the front page there is a section of hall of fame. the really good stuff gets to go in there.
even for females.
9. there is a search button at the top of the screen that you can find just about everything. that is a great feature on this site.
10. give the site a chance and you may find that you can learn a lot from the other members here. sometimes you find out ways to improve yourself.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Thank you for this! i am actually not trying to create enemies here, whilst i may not agree with what some of you's have posted on THIS thread, i say each to their own. As i said i use this site and board to better myself and game, and whilst its mainly directed at men trying to pick up women, as a bi girl i can still use some of it for my own needs and knowledge. No hard feelings here!penkitten said:
opcorn:wait_out
Master Don Juan
I'm pretty sure they are coming from Rollo's blog -- and he is a mod here. Put 2+2 together.Zarky said:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.