Korrupt
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Actually assh*le by two and mean by one. What the hell is wrong with girls these days?
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Not necessarily.Kal0051 said:Sounds like your doing something right...
Yeah for example if he tried to PIIHB (put it in her butt) and she says "NO *******" It's so totally uncalled for and she's in the wrong. Just saying.:yes:Kailex said:Not necessarily.
He needs to elaborate more on the situations that are happening in order to merit those "compliments".
Just because a woman calls you an a$$hole or a jerk or mean, it doesn't mean that you are doing something "right" every time. They very well could be meaning what they are saying. There's a fine line between C&F and genuinely being a bipedal bag of douche.
nope its only right if its getting you layed quickly and cheaply... everything else is wrong.Kal0051 said:Sounds like your doing something right...
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Korrupt said:Actually assh*le by two and mean by one. What the hell is wrong with girls these days?
....lol anyways, if you're getting action , do what you got to do.Korrupt said:If I had a point to prove about negativity on this forum, it would have been proven. Fortunately, I just made this topic for sh!ts. Anyways, you want the stories?
I had already met and knew (to some degree) the girls.
#1
Made fun of the girls tan. Told her it looked like she chipped off a piece of the (painted orange) wall, brought it to the tanning salon and said, "I want to look like THIS."
A lot of girls obsess 24/7 about their looks(hell 90%), this def was a little overboard, it could get pulled off yet you have too be a smooth mofo
#2
Weightlifting class at College. My buddy and one of the girls is playing a game of "throw and catch" with a medicine ball while standing on those half bouncy-balls. She drops the ball and tells me to pick it up and give it to her, I say, "I think you're good, you got it," and kick it to her, some other guy picks it up and gives it to her.
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No story for the third. Teasing = mean.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Korrupt said:If I had a point to prove about negativity on this forum, it would have been proven. Fortunately, I just made this topic for sh!ts. Anyways, you want the stories?
I had already met and knew (to some degree) the girls.
#1
Made fun of the girls tan. Told her it looked like she chipped off a piece of the (painted orange) wall, brought it to the tanning salon and said, "I want to look like THIS."
#2
Weightlifting class at College. My buddy and one of the girls is playing a game of "throw and catch" with a medicine ball while standing on those half bouncy-balls. She drops the ball and tells me to pick it up and give it to her, I say, "I think you're good, you got it," and kick it to her, some other guy picks it up and gives it to her.
No story for the third. Teasing = mean.
This shyt is funny.Korrupt said:If I had a point to prove about negativity on this forum, it would have been proven. Fortunately, I just made this topic for sh!ts. Anyways, you want the stories?
I had already met and knew (to some degree) the girls.
#1
Made fun of the girls tan. Told her it looked like she chipped off a piece of the (painted orange) wall, brought it to the tanning salon and said, "I want to look like THIS."
#2
Weightlifting class at College. My buddy and one of the girls is playing a game of "throw and catch" with a medicine ball while standing on those half bouncy-balls. She drops the ball and tells me to pick it up and give it to her, I say, "I think you're good, you got it," and kick it to her, some other guy picks it up and gives it to her.
No story for the third. Teasing = mean.
You obviously have a point to make, so make it.backbreaker said:let me ask you..
would you be doing this if you were not attracted to these women?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
This is good news.backbreaker said:wtf?
wow, apparently they were right. chill pill dude.