"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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So, I've been called an a$$h0le by three different girls this past week...

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Actually assh*le by two and mean by one. What the hell is wrong with girls these days?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Kal0051 said:
Sounds like your doing something right...
Not necessarily.

He needs to elaborate more on the situations that are happening in order to merit those "compliments".

Just because a woman calls you an a$$hole or a jerk or mean, it doesn't mean that you are doing something "right" every time. They very well could be meaning what they are saying. There's a fine line between C&F and genuinely being a bipedal bag of douche.
 

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Kailex said:
Not necessarily.

He needs to elaborate more on the situations that are happening in order to merit those "compliments".

Just because a woman calls you an a$$hole or a jerk or mean, it doesn't mean that you are doing something "right" every time. They very well could be meaning what they are saying. There's a fine line between C&F and genuinely being a bipedal bag of douche.
Yeah for example if he tried to PIIHB (put it in her butt) and she says "NO *******" It's so totally uncalled for and she's in the wrong. Just saying.:yes:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Korrupt said:
Actually assh*le by two and mean by one. What the hell is wrong with girls these days?

What's wrong with the girls? What the hell is wrong with YOU?



You went to girl 1,she called you a asz-hole.
You went to girl 2,she called you a asz-hole.
You went to girl 3,she called you mean.


Three different girls,three different scenarios,but ALL with the same end-result.



I don't know what's up with the girls,but I do know this....


in each situation,YOU were there.



Wherever YOU went,the term "asz-hole" followed.



So like Kailex said,you might want to have a look at what it is you're doing and saying that's causing you to get these responses.




On the positive side,if these girls are relatively new,you probably still have a chance of dating them if you want.


You'd probably need to tone down the "a-holeish" behavior a tad,though.
 

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You're overcompensating.

Send them burnt CDs with a picture of you crying, like you really want to.
 

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If they didn't say it with a smile, then I got news for you!
 

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If I had a point to prove about negativity on this forum, it would have been proven. Fortunately, I just made this topic for sh!ts. Anyways, you want the stories?

I had already met and knew (to some degree) the girls.

#1
Made fun of the girls tan. Told her it looked like she chipped off a piece of the (painted orange) wall, brought it to the tanning salon and said, "I want to look like THIS."

#2
Weightlifting class at College. My buddy and one of the girls is playing a game of "throw and catch" with a medicine ball while standing on those half bouncy-balls. She drops the ball and tells me to pick it up and give it to her, I say, "I think you're good, you got it," and kick it to her, some other guy picks it up and gives it to her.

No story for the third. Teasing = mean.
 

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Korrupt said:
If I had a point to prove about negativity on this forum, it would have been proven. Fortunately, I just made this topic for sh!ts. Anyways, you want the stories?

I had already met and knew (to some degree) the girls.

#1
Made fun of the girls tan. Told her it looked like she chipped off a piece of the (painted orange) wall, brought it to the tanning salon and said, "I want to look like THIS."

A lot of girls obsess 24/7 about their looks(hell 90%), this def was a little overboard, it could get pulled off yet you have too be a smooth mofo :)

#2
Weightlifting class at College. My buddy and one of the girls is playing a game of "throw and catch" with a medicine ball while standing on those half bouncy-balls. She drops the ball and tells me to pick it up and give it to her, I say, "I think you're good, you got it," and kick it to her, some other guy picks it up and gives it to her.

:confused:

No story for the third. Teasing = mean.
....lol anyways, if you're getting action , do what you got to do.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Korrupt said:
If I had a point to prove about negativity on this forum, it would have been proven. Fortunately, I just made this topic for sh!ts. Anyways, you want the stories?

I had already met and knew (to some degree) the girls.

#1
Made fun of the girls tan. Told her it looked like she chipped off a piece of the (painted orange) wall, brought it to the tanning salon and said, "I want to look like THIS."

#2
Weightlifting class at College. My buddy and one of the girls is playing a game of "throw and catch" with a medicine ball while standing on those half bouncy-balls. She drops the ball and tells me to pick it up and give it to her, I say, "I think you're good, you got it," and kick it to her, some other guy picks it up and gives it to her.

No story for the third. Teasing = mean.

First, chicks don't like to be told they are ugly, fat, or anything else about their looks. The way to a girl's heart is not by teasing her looks, but rather silently admiring it (wanting to fuvk her). She wants a guy that will fuvk her brains out, not ridicule her tan, hair, weight, or whatever. You should keep your mouth shut. The more you talk, the more you will lose women. Let your eyes do the talking.

Second, when she dropped that you should have smiled and said "here you go sweetheart, next time pay attention". The second time she demanded something of you, then you can say "you high or something? Pick up your own shivt.".

Mean does not equal attractive. Teasing is not being mean. Mean equals ridicule, anger, and spitefullness. All negatives that women do not like in guys (unless they are already in love with you).
 

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Korrupt said:
If I had a point to prove about negativity on this forum, it would have been proven. Fortunately, I just made this topic for sh!ts. Anyways, you want the stories?

I had already met and knew (to some degree) the girls.

#1
Made fun of the girls tan. Told her it looked like she chipped off a piece of the (painted orange) wall, brought it to the tanning salon and said, "I want to look like THIS."

#2
Weightlifting class at College. My buddy and one of the girls is playing a game of "throw and catch" with a medicine ball while standing on those half bouncy-balls. She drops the ball and tells me to pick it up and give it to her, I say, "I think you're good, you got it," and kick it to her, some other guy picks it up and gives it to her.

No story for the third. Teasing = mean.
This shyt is funny.

Well at least you got the azzhole part down. You may wanna work on your sense of humor though.
 

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let me ask you..

would you be doing this if you were not attracted to these women?
 

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backbreaker said:
let me ask you..

would you be doing this if you were not attracted to these women?
You obviously have a point to make, so make it.
 

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wtf?


wow, apparently they were right. chill pill dude.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

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wtf?


wow, apparently they were right. chill pill dude.
This is good news.
 

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he's not a pu$$y at least. Looks like you are gifted with being an a$$hole. ITS a gift! not many people feel good to be an a$$hole. it means you are much more likely to not give a dam about what woman thinks. congrats
 
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