"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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so ive been asking out a lot of females lately

_sideways_

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I'm asking for numbers, quick run to starbucks, a walk here, going jogging, etc.

and finally, I meet this girl visiting my work building.
I ask her b.s. Questions.

she asks how long I've been doing my job...i say, a long time. My stripper career wasn't taking off.

she laughs and says, oh you weren't making ends meet lol
so we share a laugh...

fast forward...so my office group is packing up headed for the door, I'm still getting mystuff together, but she is lagging too. So when we are both alone, she says ok bye nice meeting you.

obvious sign...waiting for you ...both alone.

so I automatically say, nice to meet you too, give me ur number.

no hesitations...writes her number down, gives it to me. Takes the paper back, writes her name and gives it back.

its true interested chicks won't let the sexy beast you are get away.

she's super cute baby face...im waiting at least two days to call.
I'm thinking she wants to build rapport cuz she's only 22...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Idk this girl at all...so how do i go About this phone call
 

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Set up a date. Maybe a coffee? To get to know her, be quick and to the point. Avoid all the bs questions
 

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Any news?

If you don't built enough rapport, that's what usually happens.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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_sideways_ said:
I called her....no answer. Damn ��
Dude, nobody answers phones anymore...hell I don't even bother checking VM...I just text back what did they call about...

I'd just text something like "Hey **name**, we were talking at **** about how you'd like me to provide my stripper services for you, let's grab a drink and we can discuss payment terms ;-)...what's your schedule look like this week? ***Your name***

She will know who it is from the info you gave in the text, if no response that at least you know she knows who it is, not a no answer from some random number that called her
 

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Yea marmel...i texted something similar. No answer. Back to the drawing board.

Maybe shes scared cuz im so handsome...ugh...avg girls suck.
Crazy hot chicks at least fvck with me for a while
 

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_sideways_ said:
I called her....no answer. Damn ��
Try saving your number into the woman's phone next time under an interesting name like "handsome guy from [place]." That way, not only do you get a few more minutes to talk and kino, but also get rid of the whole "who's this?" conversation. When you call/text, she knows exactly who you are. If she's interested, great. If not, you move right along.

+1 rep for seeing the signs and taking the initiative
 

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Its disheartening to get like a good vibe where shes waiting for me just to say goodbye, nice to meet me...i could almost smell her taco tingling.

But hey, this is the hard cruel world...could have been a real biatch in the end.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Hey _sideways_ , yeah its a pain when its starts all cool like that but just keep on going and all is gonna be bomb.
 
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