"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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so ive been asking out a lot of females lately

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I'm asking for numbers, quick run to starbucks, a walk here, going jogging, etc.

and finally, I meet this girl visiting my work building.
I ask her b.s. Questions.

she asks how long I've been doing my job...i say, a long time. My stripper career wasn't taking off.

she laughs and says, oh you weren't making ends meet lol
so we share a laugh...

fast forward...so my office group is packing up headed for the door, I'm still getting mystuff together, but she is lagging too. So when we are both alone, she says ok bye nice meeting you.

obvious sign...waiting for you ...both alone.

so I automatically say, nice to meet you too, give me ur number.

no hesitations...writes her number down, gives it to me. Takes the paper back, writes her name and gives it back.

its true interested chicks won't let the sexy beast you are get away.

she's super cute baby face...im waiting at least two days to call.
I'm thinking she wants to build rapport cuz she's only 22...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Idk this girl at all...so how do i go About this phone call
 

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Set up a date. Maybe a coffee? To get to know her, be quick and to the point. Avoid all the bs questions
 

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Any news?

If you don't built enough rapport, that's what usually happens.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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_sideways_ said:
I called her....no answer. Damn ��
Dude, nobody answers phones anymore...hell I don't even bother checking VM...I just text back what did they call about...

I'd just text something like "Hey **name**, we were talking at **** about how you'd like me to provide my stripper services for you, let's grab a drink and we can discuss payment terms ;-)...what's your schedule look like this week? ***Your name***

She will know who it is from the info you gave in the text, if no response that at least you know she knows who it is, not a no answer from some random number that called her
 

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Yea marmel...i texted something similar. No answer. Back to the drawing board.

Maybe shes scared cuz im so handsome...ugh...avg girls suck.
Crazy hot chicks at least fvck with me for a while
 

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_sideways_ said:
I called her....no answer. Damn ��
Try saving your number into the woman's phone next time under an interesting name like "handsome guy from [place]." That way, not only do you get a few more minutes to talk and kino, but also get rid of the whole "who's this?" conversation. When you call/text, she knows exactly who you are. If she's interested, great. If not, you move right along.

+1 rep for seeing the signs and taking the initiative
 

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Its disheartening to get like a good vibe where shes waiting for me just to say goodbye, nice to meet me...i could almost smell her taco tingling.

But hey, this is the hard cruel world...could have been a real biatch in the end.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hey _sideways_ , yeah its a pain when its starts all cool like that but just keep on going and all is gonna be bomb.
 
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