Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Wrong.Wow, Vincent finally posts something helpful.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
This has got to be the most sad thing I've ever read on a message board. First of all, you're in SoSuave's house now, and he can tell you what you can and can't say any time he wants. The Consititution is about what the government can and can't tell you to do. Dont' try and act like you've had some horrible, unconstitutional act perpetrated against you, you tool. Second, you were banned not because you posted a foot fetish thread, but because you post stupid threads constantly that have no reason being on a pick-up/self-improvement board. This would be less noticable if you ever posted a thread that indicated that you were learning or growing or actually benefitting from this board. And what point is there in asking about fetishes if you won't learn the things to get you a woman to practice it on?MikeViper said:I'll go to somewhere that abides by the constitution.
Good. That was probably the idea behind banning you. You not coming back is a good thing. You wouldn't have been banned if you were in anyway a contributing member, or if you gave any evidence that the questions you asked were actually sensible and had a reason to be on this board.MikeViper said:And no, I probably won't be coming back
Cliffs note of that threadMikeViper said:And I never posted a thread that showed that I was learning, BS:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=100727
What've you got to say now? If you say something, it's obviously not going to be right.
No, we wanted you to improve and ever since it became painfully obvious to everyone but you that you are not ever going to improve, mods decided that it was better to improve the site and get you off of it.MikeViper said:you guys want me to improve? Banning me is SURE helping that(It's sarcasm, idiot).
Shut up and whine somewhere else. Seriously, get medicated, your head doesn't work right.MikeViper said:It's obvious that if you actually KNEW anything you wouldn't of banned me in the first place.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Ok, :crackup:, post a long list of all your positive threads. We might actually care enough from your list to write a list of our own about whatever negative threads we can find.MikeViper said:show the administrators all of my negative topics, while passing up my positive ones, and again, pull sh*t out of his ass.
There you go, now you see why you were banned. You can't offer opinion of worth, so we got rid of your ability to do so. Feel free to read, but don't comment.MikeViper said:You know? That's nice man, if this site were EVERYTHING I might actually care about being banned. Being banned, doesn't stop me from viewing the advice on this site, being banned doesn't stop me from improving with girls, and being banned, certainly doesn't affect my life. Heh, it's almost a good thing, because I won't have to hang around you losers anymore, I won't have to listen to your bad advice, and I might just be able to get laid.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.