"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
So it's like that, huh?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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Wrong.
And a thread about foot fetishes to get you on the good side....-_-
You needed that ban for a long time. Go out into the world, experience it, ponder the thought of why we won't let you post, and maybe when you figured it out in due time, you can come back.
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Nowhere did I put a relation between moderator, and your foot fetish, I put opinion there (-_-).
There is free speech, I have a fetish for long hair, but you were deserving of that ban for quite the time, and you REQUIRE to see that.
You lost your posting rights here for a reason, go out into the world and figure out why.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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This has got to be the most sad thing I've ever read on a message board. First of all, you're in SoSuave's house now, and he can tell you what you can and can't say any time he wants. The Consititution is about what the government can and can't tell you to do. Dont' try and act like you've had some horrible, unconstitutional act perpetrated against you, you tool. Second, you were banned not because you posted a foot fetish thread, but because you post stupid threads constantly that have no reason being on a pick-up/self-improvement board. This would be less noticable if you ever posted a thread that indicated that you were learning or growing or actually benefitting from this board. And what point is there in asking about fetishes if you won't learn the things to get you a woman to practice it on?MikeViper said:
Good. That was probably the idea behind banning you. You not coming back is a good thing. You wouldn't have been banned if you were in anyway a contributing member, or if you gave any evidence that the questions you asked were actually sensible and had a reason to be on this board.MikeViper said:
This seems like it should be easy. You say you don't want to be here because we're unconstitutional
rolleyes, fine. You were banned because we don't want you here, super. It all point to one thing..... LEAVE!!!!! Get off of your damned computer and try to learn something in real life. Stop being a drama queen, why did you have to sign back up to tell us that you're never coming back? Why did you come back at all if you have said before that you aren't? Why does this one board where nobody likes you and can't help you matter to you so much? Seriously, get professional help, get medicated, whatever, just get off of the self-destructive path you're on. You will never get anywhere in life if you can't even get past somthing stupid like this....S1NN3R
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Cliffs note of that threadMikeViper said:
Viper: I did this wrong...
Everybody Else: Yes, you did.
Viper: Yeah, I know.
Wow, you really learned a lot.
How on earth does that prove that you learned anything? Your mind just doesn't work right if you think that's any sort of empirical evidence in your favor. If anything it just shows that you've learned even less than we thought you did. No, we wanted you to improve and ever since it became painfully obvious to everyone but you that you are not ever going to improve, mods decided that it was better to improve the site and get you off of it.MikeViper said:
S1NN3R
Master Don Juan
Shut up and whine somewhere else. Seriously, get medicated, your head doesn't work right.MikeViper said:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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We don't care if Vincent thought you were a troll, let alone lied to you
!!! The community here doesn't require your opinions, thoughts, experiences or problems, and that is why you are banned. Post your FR's on myspace or something, ***** to everyone that SS.com is a bunch of tards, but in the end, you're the tard for reasons not exclusive to..1. Being banned for the obvisous reasons you have set forth
2. Your attitude (Re-Registering *cough*for the only reason to ***** about it.)
and..
3. Having almost total disrepect for any person that has offered advice to you in your short stay here. This is the worst, because you know VERY well how easily you fly off the handle to a comment. Just look at your comment that I'm writing to, it's totally off the wall. By the end of it, you have CAPS LOCK BROKEN ON, and you're doing personal attacks against Vincent.
Go ahead and tell me I'm wrong Viper, tell me how cruelly wrong I am, it will all fall on deaf ears here. You are no longer able to be a successful part of the SS.com community, and you were banned as a measure to keep the rest of the community's tempers at ease. Go home Viper, just go home.
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Ok, :crackup:, post a long list of all your positive threads. We might actually care enough from your list to write a list of our own about whatever negative threads we can find.MikeViper said:
Do you honestly think a few positives in a sea of negatives will change anything?
Wishful thinking :crackup:
There you go, now you see why you were banned. You can't offer opinion of worth, so we got rid of your ability to do so. Feel free to read, but don't comment.MikeViper said:
Basically, old style learning 101
SHUT UP AND LEARN.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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