"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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so interesting situation

smoothtalker72

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coming home from a late away soccer game my team decides to stop for food at mcdonalds. we get inside and theres a down right gorgeous girl behind one of the registers. everyone wants to line up at her line and everyone is hitting on her. of course shes just eating it all up.

how would you go about getting a girl's number when shes being hit on left and right? especially in this situation, guys are hovering around her trying to get her attention so how do you come away with the prize? i didnt care to even try with this girl for personal reasons, although she was pretty damn hot. that and she lives a good 3 hours away.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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smoothtalker72

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none of em got the number. thats what i was thinking tho that is going in after everyone else leaves and saying something like "i apologize for my teammates, when they lose games they just lose it completely". what shocked me was that some of them actually thought they had a shot at it going at her in packs. some of them were blatantly making asses of themselves just to get her attention
 

619joe

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^ seems like a good solid line there bud,i just wouldnt say the words "i apologize".

I know she was hot,but remember,you dont need to hit on every fine piece of ass you lay your eyes on.She lives 3 hours away so that is nother bad thing
 

jeffthechef

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i agree...don't get caught up about one girl..especially if there's many bad factors..such as distance...When you see a girl show interest in you at school make sure you make a move even if you're bad or nervous..like harold in harold and kumar go to white castle in the elevator scene..man he was horrible..but he did it..cause if you dont you'll regret it and start getting oneitus or settling

kind of off topic and related
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Don't Panic

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You could've just laid back and let your mates burn their chances and start a conversation with her later on.
 

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Seperate yourself from all the other guys and you will come out on top easy. Basically, just do the opposite of everyone else =P It's times like these that ****y/funny, neg hits and all the other seduction techniques actually work. Those are the girls it is designed for.
 
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